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We all know how much us ladies love to shop, and also how much men hate to shop.
The dilemma is how to always to try to get your boyfriend to come shopping with you without complaining.
Good luck, right? Well, yes, but there are a few things you can do to
make him a little more happy about the prospect.
Try to think about all the aspects of shopping that your boyfriend hates.
Next think about it from his point of view.
What could you do to make the experience more pleasant for him?
The good news is that all is not lost, and you can see that from these ideas.
Keep the Trip As Short As You’re Able. This is one of the major gripes that guys seem
to have whenever their wives or girlfriends drag them shopping.
We naturally like to take our time and enjoy plenty of window shopping while we’re at it.
But that’s not what guys enjoy. They like to think they are a little more practical than we are.
So they don’t like to hang around and take their time when they go shopping.
Try to make sure you’re quick and efficient; save the all day trips for your girlfriends.
Make The Trip About Him. If you want to be crafty about it,
you should try to make sure you make the trip about him.
Or, at least, a little bit about him. Make sure you go to at least a couple of shops where your man can buy some things. In fact, you could even help him pick some stylish accessories.
You want your boyfriend to look good and be fashionable.
So this is an excellent way to engineer that, and make him happier about the experience.
Focus on Saving Money. Many couples argue about money, and you want to avoid this. When you tell your mister you want to go shopping, he’s going to have that fear in his head of a huge credit card bill.
So, you need to come up with ways to convince him you’re not going to spend all the money on shoes and bags. There are plenty of money saving techniques you might wish to use when it comes to clothes shopping.
If you check online, you can find plenty of discount vouchers for clothes stores.
For more info about them you can check out the site yourself.
Tell your boyfriend about these, and make him feel happier about going shopping.
Break Up the Day. Another great technique is to break up the day so it doesn’t become monotonous. We girls could happily spend all day shopping. But if you do this with your man it’s going to drive him mad.
So, instead you need to break up the day, so you’re not spending too long doing the same thing.
Stop for lunch, or go by one of his favorite bars for a drink (rewards work!)
Then you can resume if you need to. As long as you have these breaks in between.
So there is hope for converting our guys.
If you can make use of even one of these techniques,
you’ll find your boyfriend is much happier about going shopping with you.
You may even hear less complaints, and you can enjoy shopping in peace.
If all else fails, you can always go online shopping, while he watches the football.
XOXO
Mai T.
September 15, 2015Whenever we make a clothes shopping trip, he and I always split up to do own shopping. I hate shopping as much as he does so we try to keep it quick and effective.
Linda Manns Linneman
October 9, 2015These are some great tips. Most men do not like to shop unless it is for something that interests them
Maria Montero
October 15, 2015I will definetly try tip number 2 & 4 🙂 always pulling my husband to shop with me !